Kenyan socialite and businesswoman Amber Ray has broken her silence over the growing fallout between her and media personality Oga Obinna. In a composed and direct Instagram statement, Amber addressed the controversy surrounding her alleged conduct during a recent music video shoot with Obinna — a situation that has rapidly spiraled into a public spat.
In her two-part Instagram post, Amber Ray chose to respond with words wrapped in calm clarity, rather than clapbacks. She began her statement with a personal address to Obinna, acknowledging the need to clarify her position not only for him, but for the wider public watching the drama unfold.
“I want to address this with honesty, clarity, and respect… not just for you, but for everyone watching this unfold,” she wrote.
Amber went on to assert her identity and professional track record, highlighting the multiple roles she plays in her life — as a mother, a wife, an entrepreneur, and a public figure.
“I wear many hats. I’m a mother, a wife, a businesswoman, a brand, a corporate face, and yes… the Queen of Sherehe. I’ve worked hard to create a life where I can be all of these things, and show up differently and professionally in every role,” she added.
The social media influencer emphasized that her success and visibility didn’t happen overnight. According to her, it took years of commitment, self-awareness, and dedication to building a credible personal brand.
Addressing the core of the controversy — allegations that she was intoxicated and unprofessional during Obinna’s video shoot — Amber admitted she enjoys a drink, but firmly rejected claims that it has ever affected her work.
“I’ve never hidden the fact that I enjoy my drink. My followers know that’s part of who I am, and I’ve embraced it fully… but I’ve never let it interfere with my responsibilities,” she wrote.
She challenged anyone to bring forth proof of her being drunk and disorderly, noting that such footage doesn’t exist because she always maintains her composure in public settings.
“If it did, we’d all have seen endless videos of me being drunk and disorderly. But those don’t exist… because I know my limits, I know my work, and I respect my brand.”
Amber’s statement appears to be a calculated move to protect her image amid rising speculation, while refusing to directly engage in back-and-forth drama.
The dispute stems from Obinna’s recent claims that Amber arrived late and intoxicated at his video shoot, allegedly demanding changes to choreography and refusing to cooperate. Amber has maintained that she was never formally booked for the appearance and only agreed to show up as a favor — with no formal payment made.
Obinna has yet to respond directly to Amber’s Instagram statement.
As the saga continues to stir conversation online, fans remain divided — with some praising Amber’s calm and composed response, while others await Obinna’s next move in what’s become one of the most talked-about celebrity dust-ups this month.
